Courtesy of Dave Palmacci:
Dr. Marty Klein hits it on the head; the penis head. This guy, well.. he’s more than a guy, he’s a genius. I finished listening to a great podcast he hosted that covered everything I’m gonna bitch and rant about below, this is not to my credit, only his, I am just agreeing with it 100%.
Can you remember as a kid seeing someone naked and it scarring you or messing you up for life? Honestly, was there ever a point? Did peeking at some scene in a movie with a naked man/woman make you have nightmares? No? How about the scene with the machine guns? Yeah, I bet that did. So why is it OK in our society to have gruesome gore in even PG-13 movies, but we all flip out when there’s a half second of a nipple during a super bowl half time show? (which was the number 1 most downloaded piece of media on record.. yes, it was terrible).
People in general state that our country is full of sex. Yes sex, sex, and more sex everywhere we go!! Is it really? Did you know in every European country that has a coastline there’s at least 1 nude public beach? How many Europeans are messed up from that? K, how many are comfortable with that? Yeah, almost all of them.
See I think we as Americans aren’t comfortable with sexuality. We pretend we are, but we aren’t. Almost all my female friends are afraid of letting a guy think she is a so called “slut”. Because of what? She carries around birth control pills? I have guy friends who would need to be paid a billion dollars to kiss another man… as if he was being asked; “would you jump in this space ship, zip around the planet Mercury and spit on the sun without dying?”. Pfft, why a billion? Cuz they’re afraid people will think they’re gay, a billion will ensure he is not, or rather it will ensure his sexual security.
Our country is the Catholic Church when it comes to sex. We’re ignorant, we’re uneducated, and at the same time we all somehow want it. A biological urge we deny as a mainstream culture, all because we think we are doing something moral. Yes, priests who denied sex were very moral raping little boys right after they were done talking about banning condoms.
See, our society places sex in the negative category of public attention and concern. Where as it should be in the positive. The FDA did not approve a morning after contraceptive that was proven to be 100% effective in preventing pregnancy after unprotected sex the night before because; “We feel it will make people have more sex” BRILLIANT! Sex = bad, nipple sightings cause cancer, case closed.
Meanwhile STDs are on the rise, divorce rates going up, abortions happening like dental appointments, and we somehow think lack of sex education and placing the subject and image of sex on the positive end of culture and society is not related…
Could rant on and on, but you get my point. I play them and I have friends who play them too; video games where you blow people’s heads off, kill innocent people, watch movies with the same shit. But if I have a poster up with a girl wearing kinky clothing somehow then I’m a sick bastard.
I’m not saying download porn, I believe porn kills sex/love life, get rid of it the moment you aren’t single. What I am saying is; sex is a pleasure in life, it’s an art, a delicacy, we’re living longer, and we better get use to loving longer and sex is a part of that. Maybe if our culture educated people, encouraged people to be with a partner, to be secure and fine with their bodies, their sexuality, hmm maybe we’d have less; pedophiles, rapists, STDs, etc.
Great example to wrap it up: When I was in Reykjavik they didn’t have a dirty porn store, they had an “erotic enhancement and education” store. A well lit place, it looked like a mac store, I almost was going to walk in to buy a laptop (til I saw what was on the screen..) very positive atmosphere and the lady inside was wearing a suit! Simple example, now think about the trash porn stores we have here… all negative. Hmm, embracing sex vs. dubbing it a sin.
K back to blowing up heads on PS3…